The purpose of the book is to increase the wife’s sexual stimulation.
The most rapidly growing category of divorce are those marriages in which the couple is older, and the marriage has lasted several years. This has coincided with our increasing use of erectile dysfunction drugs and supplemental testosterone in the husband of these marriages.
The husband got these medications because he was not satisfied with his sex life. More to the point, he was not satisfied with his orgasms, either quantity or quality. We treated the husband, but for the most part ignored the wife.

You now have a husband who now can get better erections, better stimulation, and better orgasms. We added testosterone and now he has increased his libido, increased frequency of sexual fantasies, and made him more aggressive sexually.

The wife feels the same as she did before all of this started. There is now a disruption of their former relationship involving sex.

I wish to prevent fornication, adultery, and divorce in these couples. There are several reasons mature couples may divorce, but sex is becoming the primary one.

This book is addressed to long married couples who made the basic marriage vows. These were some versions of the husband having the responsibility to love the wife and the wife having a responsibility to submit to the husband. Over the length of the marriage this has been working, until we gave pharmaceuticals to the husband.

The husband discontent revolves around sex, more specifically libido. The husband wants more sex, more stimulation, and more orgasms. The wife has not changed.

We can either give pharmaceuticals to the wife, or increase the wife’s libido by enhancing her sexual experience and the intensity of stimulation and quality or quantity of her climax/orgasm. I wish to prevent fornication, adultery, and consequent divorce. If an older man divorces his 60-year-old wife for a 40-year-old woman, it usually revolves around dissatisfaction of his sex life. There is really nothing a 40-year-old can do that a 60-year-old cannot do. The problem revolves around the observation that older woman just does not want to.

The man wants more sex secondary to drugs. It is certainly possible to give the woman more drugs and perhaps increase libido. Although the ED drugs are not approved for women, they probably would increase the quality and duration of her erection. Testosterone is approved for women and would likely increase her libido.

But the problem is deeper than that. It is the responsibility of the husband, who agreed to love her when they married, to improve the sexual satisfaction of the wife, who agreed to submit to him. The problem is him, not her.

You may have had intercourse thousands of times, but you have something to learn I will go over male and female erection, masturbation, vaginal sex, oral sex, and anal sex. I will give the basics of how to do them.

Sexual stimulation begins with an erection in both the male and female. I will explain how to achieve this. Orgasm requires both an erection and a sexual fantasy of some kind I will review this concept with you. Right now you may think you would never consider oral sex or anal sex. You will have a different viewpoint by the end of the book.

For the man who has vowed to love his wife, I hold him responsible for his wife’s sexual stimulation, and thus for the elevation of her libido. Most men are not doing a good enough job.

For the man who has vowed to love his wife, I hold him responsible for his wife’s sexual stimulation, and thus for the elevation of her libido. Most men are not doing a good enough job.

I decided not to use medical terms to discuss these subjects for various reasons. This may upset some listeners, but I doubt if any of these are older, married couples.