Episódios

  • How to Approach “The Talk” with Your Growing Kids

    How to Approach “The Talk” with Your Growing Kids
    Sep 18 2024
    Many parents feel uneasy when it comes to talking to their kids about sex—it’s a tricky subject, and you’re not alone if it makes you uncomfortable. But the question is: when’s the right time to start? Should you bring it up before they hit adolescence or wait until they’re teenagers? In this Language of Love Session, I’m chatting with Linda, a listener who recently found herself knowing she needs to have the long-overdue “talk” with her 16-year-old daughter, but she’s torn. How do you start that kind of conversation without sounding judgmental or making it super awkward? We dive into how to navigate these critical conversations with care, respect, and a little bit of humor—because, let’s face it, we all need a bit of that when it comes to talking about sex with our kids! In this session, we cover: The importance of early conversations about sex with kids My tips and tools for how and what to cover in sex ed with your kids Effective approaches for parents to address sexual health and safety Creating the kind of dialogue with kids that keep them confiding in and talking to you Empowering children to understand their sexual desires as part of healthy sexuality My book, Talking to Your Kids About Sex: Turning “The Talk” Into a Conversation for Life is an invaluable resource for having those important discussions with your kids. Also, be sure to visit my website for tailored courses like “Quantum Sex” and others that are designed to meet your needs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    18 minutos
  • What Really Excites a Woman

    What Really Excites a Woman
    Sep 16 2024
    We’ve all heard debates about what really excites a woman intimately — whether it’s the clitoris, kisses, nipples, or other sensations. But what if I told you the real secret might surprise you? In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into how to excite the vagina and keep the passion alive in ways you might not expect. I explore some of the best exercises and tips that can work wonders and add an extra spark in the bedroom. I also share a little something you might not have considered that can play a huge role in arousal, building that emotional connection and setting the stage for deeper pleasure. Ready to discover what really makes a difference? Remember to visit my website and unlock your free Quantum Sex course, designed to help you elevate your sex life to new heights! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    8 minutos
  • Briefly Perfectly Human with Alua Arthur

    Briefly Perfectly Human with Alua Arthur
    Sep 11 2024
    One of the few absolute truths for every one of us is that death is inevitable, yet it’s a taboo topic that many of us avoid discussing. But can planning for your own death actually bring peace of mind and even make you live a more fulfilling life? In this eye-opening episode of The Language of Love Conversation, I sit down with Alua Arthur—a New York Times bestselling author, death doula, and founder of Going with Grace. We dive into those often avoided but unavoidable topics: death, dying, and grief. Drawing from her book Briefly Perfectly Human, she reveals how confronting our mortality can actually lead to a richer, more intentional life. Tune in to discover why facing these tough topics can be transformative and how a death doula plays a pivotal role in navigating the end of life with grace and meaning. Let’s dive in and learn: What does a death doula do? The nine contemplations on death How to use grief as a catalyst for growth The vision of a peaceful death and practical preparations Communication dynamics between the dying and their loved ones Accepting the reality of mortality through meditation Remember to explore Briefly Perfectly Human by Alua Arthur for even more insights. You can follow Alua on Instagram and LinkedIn, or visit her website to stay updated on her latest projects. Also, don’t forget to check out my website for courses and books tailored just for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hora e 2 minutos
  • Unpacking the Love Map: How Childhood Experiences Influence Adult Desires

    Unpacking the Love Map: How Childhood Experiences Influence Adult Desires
    Sep 4 2024
    Ever felt like your past is casting a shadow over your love life? Childhood experiences, including trauma, are intricately woven into the nature and the challenges we face in relationships. In this Language of Love Session, I delve into a heartfelt email from Muhammad, a courageous 21-year-old man from Iran. He’s grappling with his sexual orientation and OCD, sharing his attraction to abusive middle-aged men and connecting it to the emotional wounds inflicted by his abusive father. We tackle these heavy topics together, exploring the concept of the "love map"—a psychological framework that reveals how our past, particularly trauma, influences our romantic desires. Here’s what we explore: The impact of childhood trauma and abusive parental relationships on emotional well-being The connection between OCD and unmanaged anxiety The "love map" concept and how early experiences shape our attractions Understanding a "vandalized lovemap" and its effects on sexual desires and relationships Distinguishing between healthy and harmful relationships The importance of self-discovery and fostering healthy relationship dynamics Don't forget to visit my website for customized courses like 'Good Grief,' 'Quantum Sex,' and more. Let’s embrace our authentic selves and make every moment count! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    21 minutos
  • The Surprising Benefits of Scheduling Sex

    The Surprising Benefits of Scheduling Sex
    Sep 2 2024
    What if we’ve got it all wrong that the best sex is spontaneous? Could planning for intimacy actually light up a new spark in your relationship? With work stress, bills, and endless errands already filling our calendars, isn’t it worth a shot to see if scheduling sex might just be the secret to keeping the flame burning bright? In this Language of Love Bite, I’m diving into and vouching for a topic that might raise a few eyebrows: scheduling sex! Yes, you heard me right. While surprise moments can be thrilling, regular, planned encounters can also work wonders. Listen in to hear my tips on how to make scheduled sex exciting and add a little extra magic to your routine. Remember to visit my website and access my free Quantum Sex course if you’re looking to take your sex life to the next level. Also, check out my video on building desire on YouTube! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    13 minutos
  • Living a More Connected Life with Radha Agrawal

    Living a More Connected Life with Radha Agrawal
    Aug 28 2024
    I think we can all agree we are in an epidemic of loneliness. Most of us are craving deeper relationships, a genuine sense of belonging, and a community that feels like home. In this episode of "The Language of Love Conversation," I sit down with Radha Agrawal, a nine-figure entrepreneur and community-building expert. Together, we delve into the art of forging meaningful connections and share powerful strategies for cultivating relationships that truly matter. We also get into how storytelling, rituals, and even a bit of aesthetic magic can transform your community? Radha brings these insights straight from her book, Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life. Collaboration and the strength of community can help us overcome life’s toughest challenges. Here’s a sneak peek of what you’ll discover: The crucial role of social connections in our lives The growing epidemic of loneliness and its impact on mental health Practical strategies for fostering meaningful friendships The idea of "FYF" (Fuck Yes) friendships The CRAWL method for community building How social media can facilitate real-life connections The importance of aligning personal values and interests in building community Navigating the friendship life cycle and overcoming challenges How rituals can foster a deeper sense of belonging The transformative power of storytelling in creating supportive networks Don’t miss out—check out Radha’s book, Belong: Find Your People, Create Community, and Live a More Connected Life, for even more awesome tips. Connect with her on her website, LinkedIn, or Instagram. And while you’re at it, swing by my website for courses made just for you! @love.radha @dybrkr @belongcenter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hora e 4 minutos
  • Reaching New Heights in Intimacy

    Reaching New Heights in Intimacy
    Aug 21 2024
    In this Language of Love Session, I’m excited to catch up with Marla and Ken, a couple who turned their love story around and are now absolutely glowing. Having embraced Quantum Love, they’re reaching new heights in intimacy. They both share how the guidance and homework I gave them helped create a nurturing, affectionate space between them, and deeply transformed their connection. We get into all the tips and tools that work. It’s amazing how these small, thoughtful gestures can make such a significant difference! Here is what we explore: How to cultivate emotional connection for greater intimacy in relationships How to stop external stressors from sabotaging your love life Easy tips to improve communication with your partner The role of compassion and understanding as relationship game-changers How to explore personal histories with generosity If you missed previous episodes, now’s the perfect time to catch up and get the full picture of Marla and Ken’s inspiring journey. Remember to check out my complimentary course on Quantum Sex! Unlock new levels of sexual response and experience a transformation like never before. Head to my website for all the details. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    50 minutos
  • The Most Powerful Skill You Can Learn For Your Relationship

    The Most Powerful Skill You Can Learn For Your Relationship
    Aug 19 2024
    There’s an art to listening to your partner in a way that will change everything in the energy between you. In this Language of Love Bite, I dive into why listening matters so much in relationships. Truly listening—without interrupting or planning your next witty comeback— can work wonders for intimacy and trust. In addition to advice and guidance on the art of listening, I share some of my own story as I used to be a terrible listener, always thinking of my return argument, instead of really tuning in. That is until I tried this one quirky hack. Tune in to find out what it is! Remember to visit my website and explore my free Quantum Sex course—an opportunity to elevate your intimacy to the next level! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    7 minutos