This week The Dancing Housewife answers two listener-submitted questions. The first, prompts her to share her personal story of how she and The Dancing Doc started ballroom dancing. The second question delves into the importance of hair and makeup in ballroom dance competitions, covering the significance of appearance in this aesthetic sport. Tune in to discover insights on both topics and learn more about the world of ballroom dance. Got a question? Email thedancinghousewife@gmail.com!

In this week's episode, The Dancing Housewife delves into the concept of rumination in ballroom dancing. Learn how repetitive negative thinking can affect your performance, connection with your partner, and overall enjoyment of the dance. Discover actionable strategies for interrupting these mental loops and tips for better sleep and improved performance. For more insights, visit www.antoinettedatoc.com and book a free session. Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!

Join The Dancing Housewife and special guest Duffy Betterton from Dance Dress Couture as they unbox the winter Ballroom Box. Discover exciting dance accessories including a selfie clip light, hair wax stick, and a cutting-edge Wifi Bluetooth Cloud Frame. Get insights into their practical uses and the thought process behind their inclusion. Don't miss out on the special 10% discount with the code BBHousewife at www.ballroombox.me. Plus, stay tuned for upcoming details on the spring box release and the process for renting a dance dress!

In this week's episode, The Dancing Housewife sit sdown with Denise Holmes, who began ballroom dancing in January of 2024—at age 69.Denise shares her life story, from growing up in Bay City, Texas to stepping onto the competitive ballroom floor later in life. Along the way, she opens up about living with stage four cerebral amyloid angiopathy, a rare and currently incurable, untreatable and progressive neurological disorder and how ballroom dancing has played a significant role in helping her remain active, engaged, and grounded through ongoing health challenges.We talk about navigating more than 15 brain bleeds, managing persistent dizziness, and the unexpected ways dance has supported both her physical , cognitive and emotional well-being. Denise’s story is not about denying difficulty—it’s about choosing movement, connection, and purpose in the midst of it.As Denise puts it: “I believe that if not for ballroom dancing, my life would be a lot different.”This is a thoughtful, honest conversation about resilience, late-in-life beginnings, and the unique power of ballroom dance to shape how we move through hard seasons.Subscribe, share, and follow along so you never miss an episode. Happy dancing.Recovery and rehab support for dancers provided by ToneMeUp Pro:https://www.tonemeup-pro.com/en/

Ever walked out of a dance lesson feeling confident, only to forget the choreography later? Join The Dancing Housewife as she debunks myths about adult learning and provides a structured approach to mastering ballroom dancing through her 'Learning Machine' framework. Discover how adults can excel at learning choreography by focusing on input, processing, quality practice, and consolidation. Plus, get details about joining her virtual Group Mental Performance Training session to dive deeper. Tune in for practical tips and strategies to transform your dance journey! Ready to turn the Learning Machine Framework into action? Grab a spot in this week’s virtual group mental performance training for ballroom dancers.

When: Wednesday, January 7 @ 8pm eastern time

Visit https://antoinettedatoc.com/ballroom-dance-group-training/ for more information and to grab your spot!

00:00 Introduction: The Struggle with Choreography

00:31 Welcome to the Dancing Housewife Podcast

01:26 The Myth of Age and Learning

02:22 The Learning Machine Framework

02:32 Input: Decoding Choreography

03:04 Process: Naming and Organizing Steps

03:51 Output: Quality Over Quantity

04:56 Consolidation: Building Muscle Memory

05:19 Embracing Your Advantage as an Older Dancer

05:39 Homework and Final Thoughts

06:22 Invitation to the Learning Machine Session

07:40 Conclusion and Call to Action

Train Your Mindset: Learned Optimism in Ballroom Dancing

Explore the concept of learned optimism and its impact on ballroom dancers with The Dancing Housewife. Discover how dancers can train their minds to handle setbacks with resilience and confidence. Learn practical steps to separate events from identity, stay specific, control controllables, change inner language, and build evidence for growth. Transform your outlook and emotional strength on the dance floor. Don't miss this insightful episode and remember, optimism isn't just a trait—it's a skill you can practice.

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Registration is open for January Group Mental Performance Training for Ballroom Dancers!

January 4 & 7: Become a Learning Machine

Learn mental strategies to memorize choreography faster and reinforce muscle memory.

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This week The Dancing Housewife dives deep into the concept of learned helplessness and its impact on ballroom dancers. Often, dancers feel discouraged despite their relentless efforts, thinking their hard work doesn't lead to improvement. Learn about the psychological roots of this phenomenon, originally studied by psychologists Martin Seligman and Steven Maier, and discover ways to combat it. We'll discuss how ballroom dance conditions dancers to feel powerless, and provide actionable steps to restore control, clarity, and motivation. By understanding and addressing learned helplessness, dancers can reignite their passion and thrive in their art. Join us to explore this important topic and learn how to turn setbacks into opportunities for growth.

In this week’s episode of The Dancing Housewife Podcast, we kick off a brand-new feature: Mailbag Monday, where listener-submitted questions take center stage.

Today’s episode dives into the complex dynamics of Pro-Am dance partnerships—specifically, what good coaching actually looks like and how to navigate situations where an instructor’s behavior leaves you feeling confused, anxious, or unsure of yourself. We talk candidly about communication, boundaries, and when it may be time to reevaluate a coaching relationship in order to protect both your confidence and your love of dancing.

We also tackle a much more practical (and very relatable) question: how to stay warm in freezing-cold ballrooms during competitions. From between-heat strategies to cozy competition-day essentials, you’ll get actionable tips to help you stay comfortable without sacrificing performance.

If you want practical guidance, grounded perspective, and permission to advocate for yourself—this episode is for you.

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