Episódios

  • #401 - Multitasking Is Ruining Your Life (The Stoics Warned Us)
    Feb 3 2026

    Our culture glorifies multitasking—but the Stoics would call it a mistake.

    In this episode of The Strong Stoic Podcast, we explore why doing more at once often means experiencing less. Drawing on Marcus Aurelius and Seneca, we examine presence, intention, and why even “productive” multitasking quietly erodes meaning.

    We’ll talk about:

    Why multitasking feels productive but isn’t

    • The difference between intentional rest and avoidance
    • How presence transforms ordinary actions
    • Why life feels short when attention is scattered

    Slow down. Focus. Do what matters—fully.

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    17 minutos
  • #400 - Internal vs External Regulation — And When Reflection Becomes a Trap
    Jan 27 2026

    Not everyone regulates themselves the same way.

    Some people measure their actions by character. Others measure by consequences. In this episode, we explore the difference between internal and external regulation, why Stoics tend to be internal regulators, and why that can quietly lead to rumination and burnout if left unchecked.

    We cover:

    • Why not everyone thinks the way you do
    • How internal regulation drives growth—and suffering
    • When reflection stops being useful
    • A simple Stoic method to close the rumination loop

    Being internally regulated is a strength—but only if you know when to move on.

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    19 minutos
  • #399 - Be Dangerous, But Leave Room for the Human
    Jan 20 2026

    Most leadership failures don’t come from incompetence.

    They come from imbalance.

    Too much edge and people comply—but stop trusting you.

    Too much kindness and standards quietly collapse.

    Real leadership lives in the tension between humanity and consequence.

    In this episode, I break down:

    • Why edge without warmth creates feaWhy kindness without teeth creates entitlement
    • What “teeth” actually mean (and what they don’t)
    • The real cost of balanced leadership
    • Why every Stoic is a leader—whether you want the role or not

    Be kind enough to protect the human.

    Be dangerous enough to protect the standard.

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    20 minutos
  • #398 - Stoic Resilience: You're Stronger Than You Think | With Kyle Sarka
    Jan 13 2026

    In this episode, Brandon sits down with an educator and school principal, Kyle Sarka, to explore Stoic resilience—not as brute toughness, but as endurance guided by wisdom.

    The conversation moves fluidly between Stoic philosophy, leadership, fitness, history, and modern life, examining what it really means to persevere when outcomes are uncertain and comfort is abundant.

    Rather than glorifying suffering for its own sake, this episode argues that resilience is about knowing when to endure, when to adapt, and when to step back—and having the courage to act either way.

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    1 hora e 28 minutos
  • #397 - Why Does Progress Often Feel Like Failure?
    Jan 6 2026

    In this episode of The Strong Stoic, I explore a Stoic paradox: the one making the most progress often feels it the least.

    Drawing from Epictetus, Marcus Aurelius, and real-world examples from leadership, fitness, and personal responsibility, this episode breaks down why conscientious people feel behind, why growth creates insecurity, and why feeling unstable doesn’t mean you’re weak.

    I talk about:

    • Why rising standards distort self-perception
    • The difference between awareness and anxiety
    • Why imposter syndrome often signals expansion
    • How to separate your role from unrealistic expectations
    • And why shaking knees don’t invalidate strength

    If you’ve felt stretched, inadequate, or unsure lately—this episode may help you see that discomfort differently.

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    19 minutos
  • #396 - Life Isn’t Fair — And That’s the Point
    Dec 30 2025

    Life isn’t fair — and Stoicism never said it would be.

    In this episode, we explore what it actually means to live with integrity in a world that doesn’t reward effort, honesty, or discipline in predictable ways. We talk about the difference between character and reputation, when telling the truth is courageous — and when silence is wiser — and how Stoicism helps us respond to unfairness without becoming bitter or defensive.

    This is an episode about composure under pressure, clarity in chaos, and learning to carry yourself well even when the outcome isn’t what you hoped for.

    If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or unfairly judged — this one’s for you.


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    21 minutos
  • #395 - Living Between Reaction and Intention
    Dec 23 2025

    We all try to live with intention—but life keeps interrupting us.


    In this episode, I explore the tension between daily reactivity and long-term vision through a Stoic lens. Why do we keep returning to Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Seneca? Why do we need constant reminders of principles we already know?


    Because life pulls us away—daily, hourly, relentlessly.


    This episode is about carving out small moments of intention inside a reactive world, and why you don’t need more time—just space—to live with clarity and character.

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    19 minutos
  • #394 - The Stoic Warrior's Restless Night
    Dec 16 2025

    Imposter syndrome doesn’t mean you’re weak.

    It often means you’re growing.

    In this episode of The Strong Stoic Podcast, I explore imposter syndrome through a Stoic lens—why it shows up during periods of growth, why it often steals our sleep, and why it may actually be evidence that your character is strengthening.

    When we take on new roles—at work, in relationships, as parents, or in life—we carry weight we haven’t carried before. Our knees shake. Our confidence wavers. And at night, when there’s no more room in the day to process it all, the mind takes over.

    Drawing on Stoic philosophy, personal experience, and thinkers like Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Viktor Frankl, this episode reframes restless nights not as failure—but as adaptation.

    Life doesn’t necessarily get easier.

    We get stronger.

    But there’s also a limit. Not all weight can be squatted. Growth requires ambition and humility—knowing when to stretch your capacity, and when the load risks crushing you.

    This episode is for anyone:

    Taking on a new responsibility

    • Feeling behind, unqualified, or overwhelmed
    • Losing sleep during a season of growth
    • Wondering whether they’re built for the weight they’re carrying

    You are.

    But strength is built under load—and with rest.

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    16 minutos