• What Do You Stand For? From People-Pleasing to Self-Discovery: A Journey of Character and Integrity

  • Nov 5 2024
  • Duração: 1 hora e 15 minutos
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What Do You Stand For? From People-Pleasing to Self-Discovery: A Journey of Character and Integrity

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  • Are you truly living in alignment with your values, or do the expectations of others shape you? How do you begin to define your own character when emotional immaturity and narcissism are at play in your relationships? In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to build a sense of character and integrity—especially for those who may have spent years putting others’ needs above their own. Through stories, reflection, and therapeutic insight, we’ll explore how a pathologically kind person can break free from people-pleasing patterns and begin to understand their true values and beliefs. Discover how character is not only about the values you hold but also what you’re willing to tolerate or excuse in yourself and others. We’ll unpack David Schnarch’s Four Points of Balance to guide you in building a strong, flexible sense of self, showing how true integrity is about standing steady in your own identity, even when external pressures try to sway you. Join us to learn how you can move beyond external validation, live from your core, and start showing up as your authentic self in all your relationships. You find Riley Hope's "Not My Job" streaming information here: https://linktr.ee/rileyhopematlock 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:17 Listener Engagement and Social Media 01:13 Riley Hope's Anthem 01:38 Evander's Story Begins 02:32 The Social Club Dilemma 04:02 Sam's Concerns and Evander's Changes 06:35 Tony's Personal Reflection 11:48 Understanding Integrity and Character 17:51 Tom and Jerry: A Case Study 29:10 Navigating Relationships with Integrity 34:53 Navigating Integrity and Character in Relationships 35:18 Challenges for the Pathologically Kind Person 37:47 Understanding Emotional Immaturity and Narcissism 46:12 Pat and Chris: Real-Life Scenarios 53:31 Breaking Free: Strategies for Pat 01:01:31 Constructing the Crucible for Personal Growth 01:08:46 Final Thoughts on Integrity and Self-Discovery Are you truly living in alignment with your values, or do the expectations of others shape you? How do you begin to define your own character when emotional immaturity and narcissism are at play in your relationships? In this episode, we dive deep into what it means to build a sense of character and integrity—especially for those who may have spent years putting others’ needs above their own. Through stories, reflection, and therapeutic insight, we’ll explore how a pathologically kind person can break free from people-pleasing patterns and begin to understand their true values and beliefs. Discover how character is not only about the values you hold but also what you’re willing to tolerate or excuse in yourself and others. We’ll unpack David Schnarch’s Four Points of Balance to guide you in building a strong, flexible sense of self, showing how true integrity is about standing steady in your own identity, even when external pressures try to sway you. Join us to learn how you can move beyond external validation, live from your core, and start showing up as your authentic self in all your relationships. You find Riley Hope's "Not My Job" streaming information here: https://linktr.ee/rileyhopematlock 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:17 Listener Engagement and Social Media 01:13 Riley Hope's Anthem 01:38 Evander's Story Begins 02:32 The Social Club Dilemma 04:02 Sam's Concerns and Evander's Changes 06:35 Tony's Personal Reflection 11:48 Understanding Integrity and Character 17:51 Tom and Jerry: A Case Study 29:10 Navigating Relationships with Integrity 34:53 Navigating Integrity and Character in Relationships 35:18 Challenges for the Pathologically Kind Person 37:47 Understanding Emotional Immaturity and Narcissism 46:12 Pat and Chris: Real-Life Scenarios 53:31 Breaking Free: Strategies for Pat 01:01:31 Constructing the Crucible for Personal Growth 01:08:46 Final Thoughts on Integrity and Self-Discovery
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