Remember the electric excitement of new love—that can't-keep-your-hands-off-each-other feeling that makes your skin tingle before they've even touched you? That's not just chemistry; it's powerful energy work happening naturally. But what about when that initial spark fades? Does it mean something's wrong with your relationship?

Absolutely not. Drawing from nearly two decades of experience connecting people with their bodies and sensuality, I'm diving deep into the natural evolution of desire in long-term relationships. That initial infatuation serves a purpose—it pulls us together with magnetic force. But as relationships mature, something more profound develops if we let it.

Think of it like this: you have 100 points to distribute across your relationship. At first, most go toward lust and chemistry. As you build trust and understanding, those points redistribute—not disappearing but transforming into something richer. This shift explains why many women find their arousal patterns change in established relationships. Your body's response isn't broken; it's simply operating in a different mode that requires more intention and presence.

The real enemy isn't time—it's complacency. When we substitute Netflix marathons for conversation, scroll through social media instead of looking into our partner's eyes, or stop making time for physical connection, we're actively dismantling intimacy. The antidote? Curiosity. About your partner's body. About their fantasies. About what makes them feel seen and desired. Creating playful tension through teasing and anticipation. Building sexual energy throughout the day through subtle touches and suggestive messages.

Whether single or partnered, we must fight the numbing effects of modern life that disconnect us from our sensuality. Find something that ignites your curiosity, look at the world with wonder, and most importantly—lead with your heart and live with intention. Your relationship (and your life) will thank you for it.

Mentioned Episodes, Ep 1 Steps to Self Love and the meditation for steps to self love is between Ep 69 and 70.

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A short episode to get your week off to a good start.

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What if the most powerful alchemy isn't turning lead into gold, but transforming your inner landscape? After reading Paulo Coelho's "The Alchemist," I found myself questioning our obsession with external transformations while neglecting our internal evolution.

We celebrate before-and-after weight loss photos, home renovations, and rags-to-riches stories, but rarely discuss the profound internal shifts that truly change our lives. Our conversations stay surface-level – discussing new cars, homes, or Netflix shows – rather than exploring what brings us joy, fulfills our dreams, or nurtures our creativity. This attachment to external validation leaves us disconnected from what matters most.

The moments we miss while not being present – distracted by screens or mental to-do lists – can become our deepest regrets. I think about all the times I watched TV while my dog lay beside me, missing precious moments of connection I'll never get back. Children grow quickly, relationships evolve, and time passes whether we're paying attention or not.

A simple but powerful practice has transformed my perspective: changing "I have to" to "I get to." This works not just for mundane tasks but for soul-led desires too. Instead of "I have to sing" creating pressure, "I get to sing" creates gratitude and openness. We get to experience this beautiful, complicated life when many others no longer have that privilege.

When we ignore our soul's calling, the universe often delivers wake-up calls through unexpected challenges. My mother needed to break her hip before she was open to making a life change that ultimately brought her joy. But we don't need to wait for difficulties to motivate transformation – we can choose to evolve through joy and love.

Listen closely to your inner wisdom. What is your soul yearning for? Take the easy path of following that guidance rather than waiting for the universe to demand your attention. The true gold isn't external success but the rich, meaningful life that emerges when you dare to transform from within.

Book: Paulo Coelho - The Alchemist

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A short episode to get your week off to a good start.

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What if the secret to boundless energy isn't found in the latest supplement or wellness trend, but in simple daily choices that either fill or drain your energetic cup? I share with you the practices that genuinely elevate my frequency and the hidden energy vampires lurking in modern life.

Sunlight stands as perhaps our most misunderstood ally. Despite media warnings, respectful exposure to morning and evening sun provides profound healing benefits that can transform everything from skin conditions to mental clarity. I've witnessed this firsthand and share how to harness solar energy safely for maximum vitality.

The energy drains we face daily are often invisible: blue light disturbing our circadian rhythms, processed foods forcing our digestive systems into overdrive, and unresolved resentments creating physical manifestations of stress. Equally insidious are the boundaries we fail to set, allowing our energy to leak away through a thousand tiny concessions to others' needs.

But transformation awaits through accessible practices requiring nothing but commitment. Grounding—connecting bare skin to earth—has virtually eliminated my chronic headaches. Daily movement adapted to my body's changing needs keeps energy flowing. Humming and chanting instantly calm my nervous system during stressful moments. And dancing freely to favorite music brings the childlike joy we desperately need in our overly serious world.

The most powerful insight? These practices need not be perfect or daily to create meaningful change. Start where you are, incorporate what resonates, and watch as your energy, clarity and connection to life deepen organically. Your vibrant, sensual self is waiting just beneath the surface of modern distractions—ready to emerge through these simple but profound rituals.

What energy-elevating practice will you try today? Or better yet, which energy drain might you eliminate first?

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A short episode to get your week off to a good start.

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The sun beats down, days stretch long into the evening, and something ancient stirs within us. That feeling—the call to celebrate the Summer Solstice—runs deeper than modern traditions. It's a primal connection to Earth's rhythms that our ancestors understood intimately.

What happens when we reclaim our relationship with the sun instead of fearing it? In this illuminating exploration, we challenge the modern narrative that demonizes solar energy while examining ancient wisdom that honors the sun as life-giver. From the practical benefits of morning sun exposure to the fascinating practice of sun-gazing, discover how respected cultures around the world have maintained healthy relationships with solar power without chemical interventions.

Fire rituals take center stage as we delve into transformative practices for both release and manifestation. Whether writing down what you wish to burn away from your life or igniting your deepest intentions through flame, these ancient techniques harness the electric connection between solar energy and our own internal fire. The magic happens not just in following specific steps, but in the power of intention—especially when amplified through collective celebration.

I share details about my own "Soul-stice" retreat featuring shamanic drumming, ecstatic dance, and cacao ceremony, demonstrating how traditional practices can be adapted for contemporary spiritual seekers. This isn't about rigid religious observance but finding authentic ways to honor natural cycles that resonate with your own path.

As modern life increasingly disconnects us through screens and artificial environments, these seasonal celebrations offer a vital tether to something real. Whether you dance naked around a bonfire (just mind your nips!) or simply pause to express gratitude to the sun, this moment of connection grounds you in the eternal cycle of light and dark, growth and rest.

Ready to spark your own solstice magic? Join me in celebrating the sun's peak power and discover how this ancient tradition might just be the remedy our disconnected modern lives are craving.

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Jolene
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A short episode to get your week off to a good start.

- If you would like to connect further you can find me on Instagram @jolenesensualbeing
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