Episódios

  • How to Connect With Your Future Self (The Alter-SHE-go Method™️)

    How to Connect With Your Future Self (The Alter-SHE-go Method™️)
    Jan 12 2026
    If you’re ready for a massive identity shift, this episode is for you. Because you don’t become your future self by “trying harder”, you become her by deciding who she is, then moving like her until your life catches up. In this episode, I’m teaching you the method that changed my identity, changed my life, and created “The Queen of Confidence” version of me. It’s called the Alter-SHE-go Method. The practice that helped me go from a shy, traumatised, playing-small version of me, to building the Queen identity and everything that came with it. We talk about: Why identity comes before results, every time The biggest trap people fall into, “when I have it, then I’ll be it” The real shift, Be, Do, Have Why this is not fake, and what to do if you feel cringe trying it The science behind it, enclothed cognition, and why what you wear changes how you perform How I used Alter Shigo energy to do scary things, including stepping onto big stages The questions to build your future self, her values, standards, boundaries, style, beliefs, and energy The real challenge, taking action as her, not just journaling about her This is your reminder that the future version of you is not coming to save you, she’s waiting for you to meet her. Mentioned in this episode Watch Beyoncé talking about Sasha Fierce (Alter Ego energy): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BtTlFW9_sTI ▶️ WATCH THE PODCAST ON YOUTUBE https://www.youtube.com/thequeenofconfidence Connect with me If this episode hits, DM me on Instagram and tell me who your Alter She-go is. Instagram: @thequeenofconfidence https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ And if you’re listening on Spotify, leave a comment and tell me your biggest takeaway, I read them. 👑 WORK WITH ME The Queen's Table High-level mentorship for women ready to build authority, visibility, and legacy. https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ The Next Level For women ready to grow their confidence, audience, and income. https://thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevel/
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    29 minutos
  • How We Plan Our Entire Year in Just a Few Hours (2026 edition)

    How We Plan Our Entire Year in Just a Few Hours (2026 edition)
    Jan 5 2026
    If you don’t plan your year, your year will plan you. And most people don’t realise this until they’re exhausted, overbooked, chasing goals that never landed, and wondering why the life they wanted still feels just out of reach. In this episode, I’m walking you through exactly how Hamish and I plan our entire year in just a few focused hours, and why this process has changed everything for us, our business, our income, our energy, and our family life. This is how we stop reacting and start leading a year on purpose. In this episode, we cover: Why pipe dreams stay pipe dreams without structure How your calendar quietly dictates your income, content, and capacity The power of choosing a word of the year and letting it guide decisions How we map an entire year without burnout or overwhelm Why promotions, launches, and visibility must be planned early How to create space for strategy and magic at the same time The biggest mistake people make when planning a new year “You can’t co-create with the universe if you haven’t even opened your diary.” 📥 FREE RESOURCE Before you plan 2026, grab our annual Goals & Intentions Workbook, the exact process we’ve used every year since 2010. Thousands of women use this to: Reflect honestly on the year that was Decide what stays and what goes Choose a word of the year that actually shapes behaviour Map the year ahead with clarity and intention 👉 Download it free here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/2026-goals-and-intentions/ Or DM me 2026 on Instagram and I’ll send it to you. 🎯 WANT MORE SUPPORT? If you’re ready to grow an aligned, loyal audience and build real momentum online, start with The Fanbase Formula, my training on how to grow a community that actually converts. 👉 Learn more here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/fanbase-formula/ If you know you’re ready for high-level mentorship, visibility, and leadership, explore working with me inside The Queen’s Table. 👉 Apply here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/queens-table/ 💬 STAY CONNECTED If this episode hit, I want to hear from you. Come tell me what landed for you, what you’re committing to, or what your word of the year is. 📍 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ You can also leave a comment on Spotify and let me know how this episode supported you. You don’t need another year that runs you. You need a year you lead. And it starts here. ♟️
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    30 minutos
  • Our 2026 Goals & Intentions Podcast (+ Free Workbook Inside)

    Our 2026 Goals & Intentions Podcast (+ Free Workbook Inside)
    Dec 29 2025
    Don’t Set Goals for 2026 Until You Do This If 2025 stretched you, challenged you, or changed you, this episode is your reset. Before you start planning 2026, download our annual Goals & Intentions Workbook and follow this process with us. 👉🏽 Grab it free here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/2026-goals-and-intentions/ This is the exact year-end ritual we’ve used since 2010 to close one chapter properly, decide what stays, release what you’re done with, and intentionally design the year ahead. In this episode, Hamish and I share how we: Reflect honestly on the year that was Choose a word of the year that actually guides our actions Identify patterns, lessons, and non-negotiables Map the year ahead with intention instead of pressure 🎧 After listening: Come tell me what landed for you (comment if you’re listening on spotify!) OR 📸 Send me a DM on Instagram and let me know how you enjoyed this episode: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence If you’re ready for deeper support: ✨ The Next Level https://thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevel/ ✨ The Queen’s Table https://thequeenofconfidence.com/queens-table/ 📚 My books: Confidence Feels Like Sh*t & Becoming Magnetic Available on Amazon If this episode helped you, share it with someone who needs a reset before stepping into 2026.
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    1 hora e 7 minutos
  • Your end of year ass-kicking & reality check (⚠️ only play if you're ready to be fired up)

    Your end of year ass-kicking & reality check (⚠️ only play if you're ready to be fired up)
    Dec 22 2025
    (I have a early present for you - download your 2026 Goals & Intentions here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/2026-goals-and-intentions/ OK! Back to the ass-kicking…How badly do you actually want the life you say you want? This episode is a direct conversation about commitment, purpose, and the uncomfortable truth most people avoid. I’m not here to motivate you. I’m here to ask you a question that changes everything. Because most people will never achieve their dreams. Not because they can’t, but because they aren’t willing to do what it takes. In this episode, I talk about the difference between a pipe dream and a mission. Why words mean nothing without action. Why comfort keeps you stuck. And why the people you admire are willing to do things most people won’t. I share my own story, the trauma I survived, the clarity I have about why I’m here, and why I refuse to live a small life. Not because it’s easy, but because the mission is bigger than me. This is an end-of-year conversation. The kind that asks you to get honest with yourself before you carry excuses into another year. In this episode, we cover: • Why most people never follow through on their vision • The difference between wanting something and being committed to it • Why motivation fades but purpose doesn’t • What comfort and safety are actually costing you • Why proximity, mentorship, and investment matter • What you’re willing to do when it actually matters If this episode hits, let me know. Come tell me on Instagram at @thequeenofconfidence https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence And if you know you’re ready for high-level mentorship, visibility, and claiming your space, explore The Queen’s Table here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ If this is the season you’re ready to reflect, reset, and plan intentionally, download my free Goals & Intentions Workbook here or DM me “2026” on Instagram: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/2026-goals-and-intentions/ This is the perfect time of year to ask yourself this question: Not can I do it, but will I?
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    28 minutos
  • The Exact Exercise That Helped Me Manifest My TEDx Talk

    The Exact Exercise That Helped Me Manifest My TEDx Talk
    Dec 15 2025
    This is hands down one of the most powerful exercises I have ever done, and I am not exaggerating when I say it changed my life. In this week’s episode, I’m sharing a video that is inside of my Next level program. This is an exercise where I walk my clients through the exact future self exercise that helped me move through fear, apply for my TEDx, and actually do the thing I kept telling myself I wasn’t capable of. Not someday. Not years later. Immediately. This is not mindset fluff. This is a psychotherapy-based visualisation and embodiment exercise that allows you to access the version of you who has already done the thing you’re scared of. Inside this episode, you’ll experience: • Why your future self already lives inside you • How fear and desire can exist at the same time • The exact exercise I was guided through before my TEDx • How to receive clarity and guidance from future you • What action to take today to meet her sooner By the end of this sneak peek episode, you won’t just be thinking about your future self, you will have met her, heard her, and received direction from her. Do this exercise properly. Suspend disbelief. Let it be powerful. If you do it, DM me on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence and tell me what came through for you. And if you are ready to Next level every area of your business, confidence and life, join me inside the Next level here:https://thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevel/ PLUS: I am sharing an early look at our annual Goals & Intentions Workbook, our most popular resource we share all year - you can grab it here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/2026-goals-and-intentions/
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    10 minutos
  • The Non-Sexy Stuff That Built My Personal Brand (The Truth No One Talks About)

    The Non-Sexy Stuff That Built My Personal Brand (The Truth No One Talks About)
    Dec 9 2025
    Everybody sees the TEDx, the book deals, the stages, the flights, the millions of downloads… But nobody sees the unsexy stuff that actually built my personal brand. In this episode, I’m breaking down the boring, uncomfortable, behind-the-scenes discipline that made my brand trusted, global, profitable, and unforgettable. This is the truth no one glamorises, but everyone who wins does. Here’s what we get into: • Why personal branding is a long game, not a “go viral this year” game • The consistency and self-leadership required when life gets messy • Showing up even when your mood says otherwise • Turning your quirks and edges into your secret sauce • Why paying for proximity changed everything • How doing things for free (strategically) accelerates your growth • The unglamorous sacrifices behind every “glam moment” • Why details matter more than you think By the end of this episode, you’ll understand exactly why your brand isn’t where you want it yet, and what it will really take to build something iconic and unforgettable. This is the work most people skip — which is why most people never get there. If this landed, DM me on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence and tell me your biggest takeaway. And if you are SERIOUS about blowing up your personal brand in 2026 final applications for the Queens Table cohort are open: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/
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    51 minutos
  • Why Female Leaders Get Overlooked (And How To Change It)

    Why Female Leaders Get Overlooked (And How To Change It)
    Dec 1 2025
    You can’t lead powerfully if you are secretly at war with yourself. In this episode, I am unpacking what I have been seeing inside rooms full of incredible female leaders at organisations around the globe, and why so many of us are still holding ourselves back from the roles, recognition and rewards we say we want. We talk about: • Why women are five times less likely to self promote than men • How imposter syndrome shows up for women in leadership • The difference between blaming “the system” and taking radical responsibility • Showing up, standing up and speaking up, even when it feels uncomfortable • Why confidence is really about self trust, and how you build it in real life By the end of this episode, you will be brutally clear on where you are shrinking, where you are fighting yourself, and what needs to change if you truly want to step into leadership and be seen. ❤️ If this landed, share it with a woman in leadership who needs the reminder, and come tell me your biggest takeaway on Instagram @thequeenofconfidence https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence
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    30 minutos
  • Unmissable: How to Stand Out, Get Seen, and Be Remembered - Next Level Nov EP4

    Unmissable: How to Stand Out, Get Seen, and Be Remembered - Next Level Nov EP4
    Nov 24 2025
    LAST EPISODE OF NEXT LEVEL NOVEMBER! You’ve done the work. Built the business. Created the impact. But you’re still the best-kept secret. Why? This is the final episode of Next Level November and it’s your invitation to step into your next level visibility. I’m not talking about being popular. I’m talking about becoming unmissable. In this episode, I walk you through my signature workbook and personal brand process to help you get clear on the big vision you’re avoiding, the identity you need to activate, and the patterns still slowing you down. This is about giving you the real strategy for women who want to lead, speak, and be remembered in 2026 and beyond. What you’ll learn: • Why you’re still unseen (even with a great business) • How to clarify and claim your Queen-level vision • The “Alter Shego” shift that changes everything • Why most women stay stuck in perfection and preparation • How to stop overthinking and start getting booked 🔥 If you want to watch this entire series before it expires, head to my instagram and DM me “CLASS” or click here and download the free playbook too: https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/nextlevelnovember This episode is for you if… You’re done blending in. You’re ready to lead with power. You know your next level depends on being seen. 🎧 Screenshot your favourite moment, tag me @thequeenofconfidence https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence 🟢 Listening on Spotify? Drop a comment — tell me what hit.
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    35 minutos