Episódios

  • How to Build an Audacious Personal Brand (Even If You're Scared to Be Seen)
    Jul 20 2026
    You don't build a powerful personal brand by waiting until you feel confident. You build it by being audacious enough to show up while you're still scared. In this episode, I'm sharing why audacity, not confidence, is the real reason some people create incredible opportunities while everyone else stays stuck waiting to feel ready. If you've been holding yourself back because you're worried about what people think, you're second-guessing yourself, or you're waiting for the "perfect" time, this conversation is for you. Your personal brand isn't built by playing it safe. It's built one brave decision at a time. We talk about: why audacity is the real foundation of a powerful personal brand how to become magnetic by showing up before you feel ready what it actually feels like to build confidence in real time why your biggest opportunities are waiting on the other side of courage If you're ready to become impossible to ignore, this episode is for you. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us! Chapters 00:00:00 The Most Audacious Person Always Wins 00:00:14 Welcome to the Confidence Chronicles: Stand in Who You Are 00:01:08 Audacity Means You're Scared as Hell But Doing It Anyway 00:02:29 Introducing the Audacious Personal Brand Masterclass 00:03:26 You Are That Big Sister Slapping You Around With Love 00:04:18 Every Opportunity Starts With Having the Audacity 00:05:02 Confidence Feels Like Shit: The Reality of Audacity 00:05:45 Five Minutes Before Every Stage: The Nervous Reality 00:06:18 Audacity Happens Before the Moment Arrives 00:07:05 The Day I Meet Tony Robbins: I'm Going to Vomit and Die 00:09:48 You Already Have a Personal Brand 00:11:16 When You're Audacious, You're Magnetic 00:11:36 Your Personal Brand Is Built One Brave Decision at a Time 00:12:33 I Don't Give a Fuck What You Think About Me 00:13:09 Do What You Can: Starting My Podcast in My Car 00:13:28 Go Left When Everybody's Going Right 00:14:27 Have the Audacity to Be Who the Fuck You Are 00:15:05 Category of One Energy: How to Cut Through the Noise 00:15:51 Someone Doesn't Like You? Who Gives a Fuck? 00:16:08 You Swear Too Much: Yeah Bitch, I Swear in My Intro 00:16:55 Say It With the Most Audacity and We Will Follow 00:17:57 Come to the Personal Brand Masterclass: Comment the Word Brand 00:18:23 The Number One Thing We're Missing: Permission to Be Audacious 00:18:50 The Internet Be Lying: It's Nerve-Wracking 00:19:40 Audacity Is a Decision You Make 00:20:07 How Are You Different? That's When You Start Attracting Everything 00:21:05 Thank You for Listening: Share This With a Woman Who Needs It
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    20 minutos
  • The Confidence Advice Every Woman Over 40 Needs
    Jul 13 2026
    If You're Over 40, You Need to Hear This If you've found yourself wondering whether you're still relevant, whether you've been left behind or whether younger creators have something you don't, this episode is your reminder. Your experience isn't a disadvantage. It's your greatest competitive edge. Erika shares why so many women over 40 lose confidence online, how comparison steals your power, and why your lived experience is something no trend, algorithm or AI can ever replace. We talk about: why so many women over 40 are questioning their confidence the hidden cost of comparing yourself to younger creators how to reconnect with your experience, wisdom and authority why your next chapter can become your biggest one yet If you're over 40 and building a business, changing careers or stepping into a new season of life, this episode will remind you exactly who you are. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us! Chapters 00:00:00 The Comparison Crisis: Why Women Over 40 Are Second-Guessing Themselves 00:00:36 Welcome to the Confidence Chronicles: This One's For You If You're Over 40 00:01:57 Feeling 28 at 43: Refusing to Believe in Age Limitations 00:02:42 What You're Really Comparing: Experience vs. Confidence 00:04:37 This Is Not a New Problem: Every Generation Faces This 00:07:06 You Forgot What You Built: Remember Who You Are 00:09:09 The Internet Rewards Loud, But Business Rewards Trust 00:12:04 Stop Outsourcing Your Authority to Younger People 00:14:34 You Are a Category of One: Stop Asking How to Be Like Her 00:18:25 Midlife Reinvention: Who Am I Now and What's Important? 00:21:08 Am I Relevant? The Question You Should Be Asking Instead 00:22:46 Your Experience Is Yours Alone: Nobody Can Take That Away 00:24:06 Get High on Your Own Supply: Remember Who You Are
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    27 minutos
  • Why You Keep Comparing Yourself (And It’s Ruining Your Confidence)
    Jul 6 2026
    Have you ever looked at someone online and wondered why they're so much further ahead than you? In this episode, Erika shares why comparison is one of the fastest ways to destroy your confidence and why most of us are comparing completely different lives without even realising it. From age and motherhood to money, support systems and life experience, there are countless factors we never see behind someone's success. Yet we compare ourselves anyway. This conversation is a reminder to stop measuring your life against someone else's timeline and start focusing on building your own. We talk about: why comparison without context is keeping you stuck the hidden factors you're forgetting every time you compare yourself how social media distorts success and fuels self-doubt practical ways to come back to your own lane and rebuild confidence If you've been feeling behind lately, this episode will help you see yourself, and your journey, differently. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audiobook app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7-figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us!
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    28 minutos
  • Why Slowing Down Is the Fastest Way to Grow
    Jun 29 2026
    Everyone is telling you to move faster. Scale faster. Launch more. Post more. Do more. But after building a multi-seven-figure business, I learned that the biggest breakthroughs didn't happen while I was moving faster. They happened when I slowed down long enough to build the foundations that could actually support the next level. In this episode, I share one of the hardest business lessons I've learned, why slowing down isn't failure, and how creating strong systems, boundaries and alignment can become the greatest growth strategy you'll ever implement. In this episode: • Why slowing down can accelerate your growth • The mistake ambitious entrepreneurs make when scaling • What to focus on before chasing the next opportunity • How to build a business that actually supports your life If you've been feeling stuck, overwhelmed or like you've lost your momentum, this episode will change the way you think about growth. 👇 Let me know in the comments: What's one area of your business or life that needs stronger foundations before you chase the next goal? READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audiobook app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7-figure global business. → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK For keynotes, corporate events and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/ → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 👍 If you enjoyed this episode, subscribe, like this video and share it with someone who's building something big. Your support helps us reach more women ready to lead with confidence. Chapters 00:00:00 When Everything Slips Through the Cracks: The Reality of Going Too Fast 00:00:58 Welcome to the Confidence Chronicles: Stand in Who You Are 00:01:52 The Hardest Year: Behind the Scenes of Building a Business 00:02:45 From Dead Broke to Audacious Belief: The Power of Purpose 00:04:24 The Conversation That Changed Everything: We Need to Slow Down 00:05:51 Structure: The Word of the Year That Wasn't Exciting 00:07:02 The Queen Bee Role: Getting Out of Every Department 00:07:26 Adding University Placement to the Mix: Perfect Timing or Chaos? 00:08:50 Learning Your Energy Type: Why Being Home Doesn't Work for Everyone 00:10:11 Seeing the Gaps: What Slowing Down Revealed About the Business 00:10:41 Too Dramatic or Too Real? From 500 Miles an Hour to Double Brakes 00:11:53 The 10-80-10 Process: A Game-Changing Framework for Founders 00:13:45 Organizing Everything: Notion, Google Drive, and House Cleaning 00:14:42 Sales Over Content: Reorganizing Priorities That Actually Matter 00:15:36 Cleaning Up the Client Journey: Funnels, Emails, and Simplification 00:16:01 When You're Bored, Make Your Business Better: The Unsexy Work 00:16:37 Coming Out of the Cave: WD-40 on My Joints and Cleaning Cobwebs 00:18:49 Slow Down to Speed Up: The Arrow Analogy That Explains Everything 00:19:28 Trust the Process: Less Pressure, More Intention, More Wisdom 00:19:54 You Can't Achieve Big Dreams with Chaos: The Hard Truth 00:20:15 Your Dream Has Your Name on It: Nobody's Taking It Away 00:21:00 Get Off Your Phone: Your Brain Is More Messed Up Than You Realize 00:21:42 It's Not Always Roses and Flowers: The Real Behind the Scenes
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    23 minutos
  • The Hidden Cost of Chasing Your Dreams
    Jun 22 2026
    What happens when the thing you've been praying for finally arrives? In this deeply personal episode, I share the reality of receiving one of the biggest opportunities of my career and the unexpected emotions that came with it. Because while social media loves to celebrate success, very few people talk about the sacrifices, guilt, sadness, and complexity that can show up when your dreams start becoming reality. This conversation is about ambition, motherhood, purpose, sacrifice, and learning how to hold joy and grief at the same time. We talk about: the side of success most people never talk about why getting what you want can bring unexpected emotions how to navigate guilt when your dreams impact the people you love the reality of sacrifice, ambition, and building an extraordinary life If you're building something meaningful, chasing a big dream, or feeling torn between what you want and who you love, this episode is for you. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen’s Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us!
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    22 minutos
  • The Secrets to Becoming Unstoppable
    Jun 15 2026
    What if the biggest thing standing between you and the life you want... is you? In this episode, I'm breaking down what it really means to become unstoppable, and why success has far less to do with talent, strategy, or luck than most people think. Inspired by my Becoming Unstoppable masterclass, this conversation explores the hidden ways women hold themselves back, the stories that keep them stuck, and what it actually takes to move through fear, rejection, self-doubt, and visibility blocks. Because the truth is, nobody is stopping you. The question is: are you willing to stop stopping yourself? We talk about: the hidden ways you're getting in your own way without realizing it why fear of rejection, criticism and visibility keeps so many women stuck the mindset shift that helps you keep going when things get hard what self-trust, self-leadership and resilience actually look like in real life If you've been feeling stuck, playing small, waiting for permission, or questioning yourself, this episode is your reminder that the next level version of you already exists. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen’s Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us!
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    20 minutos
  • The Truth About Becoming a Paid Speaker
    Jun 9 2026
    Join me for Paid To Speak on July 8th - apply here: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/paid-to-speak/ Resources mentioned on this episode: How to Get More Speaking Gigs Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022?i=1000771404374 Ready to Build your X-factor and stand out from the crowd? Watch my Stand Out Personal Brand masterclass here: https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/7UiNB2x9/checkout — This episode is for you if you want to become a paid speaker. Most people think getting on stage is the goal. It isn't. The stage is just the beginning. In this episode, I pull back the curtain on the business of speaking, what actually gets you booked, how speakers make money beyond their speaker fee, and why some people leave an event with applause while others leave with clients, opportunities, and long-term impact. If you've ever dreamed of speaking on stages, landing TEDx talks, getting booked for conferences, or building authority through speaking, this conversation is for you. We talk about: what event organisers are really looking for in a speaker why personal branding matters more than your speaking skills how one free speaking gig generated over $70,000 the business systems every speaker needs behind the scenes Whether you're a coach, consultant, entrepreneur, thought leader or aspiring speaker, this episode will completely change how you think about getting paid to speak. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence 👑 LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE TO THE CONFIDENCE CHRONICLES → Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2MUxtupRLNGB8cuNC9mwXI → Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-confidence-chronicles/id1439434022 → YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWtf2VIsUYg-vkERa16r_VcFNz3Bt6kLI → All platforms: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/podcast/ 🙏🏽 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? Please subscribe so you never miss one. It takes 30 seconds and it means everything to us! Chapters 00:00:00 The Most Requested Topic 00:02:04 How to Get Paid to Speak 00:03:37 Speaking Is an Opportunity, Not Just a Paycheck 00:05:13 The Business Behind Speaking: What No One Tells You 00:07:49 The 70K Speaking fee 00:09:20 Speaker Fees Breakdown: Australia vs United States 00:11:49 Your Personal Brand Is Everything: Be Memorable or Be Forgotten 00:12:25 Speaker Assets You Must Have: Reels, Websites, and Visibility 00:13:11 The More You Speak, The More You Speak 00:14:08 Build Your Ecosystem First 00:17:54 The Backend That Made 20K 00:21:02 Why You Can't Copy and Paste Your Talks 00:23:05 Make Your Audience Feel Something: Interaction and Impact 00:23:57 The Longevity Game: What Happens After You Leave the Stage 00:26:22 Three Pillars of Paid Speaking: Brand, Business, and Mindset 00:27:08 You're Here to Serve, Not to Look Cool 00:28:18 Join me at Paid to Speak
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    25 minutos
  • Why You Can’t Manifest When You Feel Like Sh*t
    Jun 5 2026
    You cannot manifest what you want when you feel like sh*t. Well, technically you can, but you'll probably keep manifesting more of what you don't want. In this episode, I'm joined by my husband Hamish to have an honest conversation about manifestation, alignment, energy, and what it really takes to create the life, business, relationships, and opportunities you want. When you're operating from stress, scarcity, frustration, overwhelm, or fear, it's easy to fall into the trap of forcing outcomes instead of becoming the person capable of receiving them. In this episode, we discuss: why you can't create abundance from a place of lack what to do when life feels heavy and nothing seems to be working how to become the version of you who already has what you want the balance between surrender, trust and taking action This conversation will challenge the way you think about manifestation and remind you that sometimes the biggest shifts happen when you stop forcing and start trusting. READY TO BUILD YOUR AUTHORITY, CONFIDENCE & PERSONAL BRAND? 📖 GET ERIKA'S BOOKS → Becoming Magnetic (Penguin Random House, 2025) → Confidence Feels Like Shit (2020) Available here: https://shop.thequeenofconfidence.com/collections/book Amazon, Barnes & Noble or any audio book app 📩 GROW YOUR FANBASE — Learn the timeless skill that turned my 1,000 followers into a 7 figure global business → https://courses.thequeenofconfidence.com/offers/TKhTxM3n/checkout ♟️ The Queen's Table My high-level mentorship for women ready to step into leadership, visibility and legacy. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-queens-table/ ✨ The Next Level Build your confidence, audience and income. → https://thequeenofconfidence.com/the-next-level/ 🎤 BOOK ERIKA TO SPEAK → For keynotes, corporate events, and women's leadership conferences in Australia and the USA: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/speaking/ 📲 FOLLOW ERIKA → Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thequeenofconfidence/?hl=en → LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erika-cramer-queenconfidence/ → Website: https://thequeenofconfidence.com/about/ → TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thequeenofconfidence Chapters 00:00:00 Why You Can't Manifest When You Feel Like Sh*t 00:02:28 The Energy of Your Home Impacts Your Business: Working as a Couple 00:03:42 You Can't Attract from Chaos: Why Pushing Through Shitty Feelings Doesn't Work 00:05:17 When Working Harder Makes Things Worse 00:06:46 Hamish's Three-Step Formula: Detach, Journal, and Breathwork 00:08:09 The Information Overload Problem: Why You're Taking Advice That Doesn't Apply to You 00:09:33 Getting Back to Center: Meditation, Breath Work, and Creative Journaling 00:13:00 What Erika Does When She Feels Like Sh*t: Crying, Venting, and Getting It Out 00:21:48 The Danger of Doomscrolling: Stop Researching and Start Creating 00:22:39 Exercise, Sleep, and Self-Care: The Foundation of Feeling Good 00:25:08 The Sexiest Part: Hamish's Manifestation Process Explained 00:27:48 Envisioning Your Reality as a Player of One 00:29:35 The Peter Pan Principle of Manifestation 00:30:27 From Head to Body: Feeling It, Not Just Thinking It 00:32:37 Your Body Doesn't Know the Difference: Living the Vision Now 00:34:48 The Open-Eye Meditation: Walking Around as the Version Who Already Has It 00:36:06 Shifting Your Identity: Be the Person Who Already Has What You Want 00:41:30 The Lottery Exercise: What Would You Do If You Won 22 Million Dollars Right Now? 00:40:46 You Got to Be Fucking Good: The Vessel Has to Feel Good First
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    41 minutos